Friday, September 30, 2011

Gorgeous Weather

It's sunny and 75 degrees outside.  The weather is gorgeous.  How is it supposed to go down to 48 degrees tomorrow night (and rain all day)?
 
To celebrate the nice weather, A and I just had lunch in Bryant Park.  It was packed with people as it always is on nice days.  It was so nice to take a break from the indoors for some kofta.
 
Hoping they are wrong about the rain forecast!

Thursday, September 29, 2011

Double Class

Each year I make a new years resolution to get back in shape. Each year it... doesn't happen. It's so hard to find time with long and unpredictable hours at work and things just feel like they are spiraling out of control. I barely recognize myself in the mirror. Must get in shape!

This week I have been trying to at least do a 10 minute workout before leaving for the office in the morning. Since I don't know what time I'll get out (usually, not early enough for a cardio class at the gym) or how sedentary I will be that day (usually, very, although not my fault, it's the nature of the job since treadmill desks aren't an option), at least I'll have done something that day to try to meet the goal. I prefer exercising in the afternoon, as that is when my body most wants to exercise, but I think the best time to exercise to make sure you get the work in is the morning. Sadly, I'm not a morning person. That needs to change.

Today, I was lucky because it's Rosh Hashanah so I had the day off. I decided to push myself and take 2 classes at the gym: body combat (martial arts-inspired cardio) and vinyasa yoga. I love body combat, as it's the one workout where I really feel like I'm getting good cardio in all the time, and I love yoga, as I usually feel fantastic after every class.

Body combat was great as usual, but yoga today kicked my a**. After the class started, she announced that it wasn't really a beginner class (they probably should note that in the schedule). I've been doing yoga for years, so knowing the moves and the technique isn't my problem. My issue is that I'm out of practice and lack the strength to get it done. There were so many things that I know I've done before that I just couldn't manage. Of course, it was after body combat, so my arms would barely hold up for downward facing dog! I was reminded constantly (by myself) of how far out of practice I had fallen. It was very sad. This was probably the first yoga class in a long time where I haven't walked out feeling super stretched out (since I had to keep stopping during the moves) and in sync.

I need to start working out more. Any suggestions for things I can actually do in the office (other than pushups)?

Fall is in the air

A cool breeze kicked up this afternoon/evening after the rain subsided, and it felt good. Even though I enjoy lounging around when it's hot outside, something about the cool Fall breezes is invigorating. M and I do not claim to be morning people. In fact, I would venture to say that we are anti-morning people. Because of this, we have issues waking up and staying awake during the day. We're not sure what our problem is, but we know we need to fix it.

However, as tired as I was today, I felt great and alive when I walked home from work. I don't know how M felt about it, but the cool crispness in the air felt good. Another thing that I love about Fall is that it means two things are back: football and pumpkin.

I love football. I love watching it, I love playing fantasy football, I even love playing it when I have people to play with. Something about how important every game is on a weekly basis makes the sport that much more exciting. Even if my Bears and M's Giants continuously fall short and frustrate us to no end, we can't help but keep cheering (and eventually feeling let down). M would probably start talking about baseball since she's a Yankees fan, but I'm a Cubs fan. Fall usually doesn't mean a whole lot to me baseball-wise.

But one thing we both enjoy is pumpkins. No, we don't like carving them and making jack-o-lanterns, we like eating them. We also really enjoy pumpkin flavored things. Frozen yogurt, lattes, pies, bread, custard, beer, the uses are endless!

Fall truly is one of the best times of the year.

Thursday, September 22, 2011

The Sing-Off

I had been writing a review of the Sing-Off until I realized that this TWoP blog post had all of the points I was trying to make (and it makes them better).  So... read that instead.  Ha.

Tuesday, September 20, 2011

Castle 4.1

"Rise" (originally aired September 19, 2011)

Castle is probably one of my favorite dramas on TV right now. I love the cast, I love the stories and just find the show a lot of fun. I was anxiously awaiting the season premiere after last season's intense (and sad) finale. I knew Beckett would be fine (after all, there is an entire season of the show to go), but I was still looking forward to seeing how they resolved the storyline of her mother's murder.

This episode wasn't one of my favorites but it was a necessary step in dealing with the aftermath of the shooting and the transition from the Montgomery-era to the new Gates-era. (Unfortunately, when I see the new captain, all I think of is Sherry Palmer. 24 season 1 was one of the first shows that I watched faithfully without missing an episode.) The story was still intense, as it dealt with recovery and whether or not to pursue the investigation (and that ending just spells trouble), so it was less amusing than some others.

That said, I'm glad the team is back, and I can't wait for the next episode. Superhero fun!

2 Broke Girls 1.1

"Pilot" (originally aired September 19, 2011)

The new CBS comedy 2 Broke Girls is about... 2 broke girls. They meet while working at a diner and by the end of the pilot, are friends and roommates with plans to start a cupcake bakery. One has the cupcake talent (we're told) and the other is supposed to be the equivalent of Madoff's daughter who has lost everything. That's the plot in a nutshell (unless I missed something when cringing at the laugh track).

The reviews for the show were good, and many of the critics thought this was the best new comedy in the fall slate, along with the New Girl (although some thought this one was better). I really wanted to like it.

But there were quite a few things I had issues with:

1. The laugh track. I grew up watching lots of sitcoms and the entire TGIF slate but it seems that now I can't take the laugh track. It just annoys me.

2. I didn't laugh at all. I think I found Free Agents funnier. And as I mentioned on Twitter last week, I laughed with the Teen Wolf finale more than both Up All Night and Free Agents combined. The jokes here just felt very flat and not very funny.

3. It felt like I was watching an old 90s sitcom ... but that is a different age in comedy. Are there a lot of comedies out there like this now? (I don't watch any of the CBS ones.)

It just didn't feel fun. Comedies should be entertaining and fun!

As I mentioned previously, I give new shows a few tries. This will get another chance, although I'm not sure I want to use up DVR space (so I hope it's online). They didn't get to the "starting point" of the show (friends and roommates with a plan) until the end of the pilot, so I feel obligated to give the "real" show a try. But if I don't find the next episode funny at all either, I think that will be it for the 2 broke girls for me.

Thursday, September 15, 2011

Free Agents 1.1

"Pilot" (originally aired September 14, 2011)

Free Agents occupies the other half of the comedy hour with Up All Night. The ratings are in and Up All Night did much better. I wonder if it was because, between the 2, it got more of the promotion. I saw an extended preview online for Free Agents (and was mildly amused by it but not that impressed) and that was about it. I don't watch a lot of ads, but even I saw the ads for Up All Night.

The show is about a group of PR co-workers and focuses on 2 (Hank Azaria and Kathryn Hahn) who are overcoming difficult personal situations (divorce and loss of a loved one) and happen to hook up. There's also a whole group of co-workers who have no boundaries, especially the boss (Giles, I know that's not his name, but that's stuck with me since Buffy, or I guess more recently, Uther Pendragon).

Overall, I thought the Free Agents pilot was good and I could see why it got picked up. The characters were likeable and somewhat believable (other than the 20+ fiance pictures, but I think that was for effect). Unlike Up All Night, there wasn't any moment where I really laughed out loud, but the show did make me smile. It also didn't bring me down with reality like Up All Night did, but maybe that's because no one there seems to have or need (or want) work/life balance (a topic which clearly resonates with me). I thought the pilot was smoother and more coherent than Up All Night, but the latter got reworked a little bit after it was originally made so perhaps that's why.

I would watch this again. A won't watch it with me because he says all he'll hear will be Moe the bartender. I guess I can see that. As far as comedies go, both this and Up All Night were relatively good, but I can't wait for the return of Modern Family, Community and Happy Endings!

Up All Night 1.1

"Pilot" (originally aired September 14, 2011)

Up All Night is the new comedy with Christina Applegate, Will Arnett and Maya Rudolph about being new parents, and trying to balance parenthood with other parts of life, like marriage and work. With that cast, and based on the extended preview I saw (the part where they realize they have to stop swearing around the baby), this was high on my list of new comedies to sample. The premise had a lot of potential, the actors were good and I expected a half hour of fun and laughs.

The pilot was OK. It set up all the characters and the plots, and there were some really funny moments, but I expected more laughs from it. Parts of it were a bit serious and real. I just watched Parenthood this afternoon, which I sometimes find uncomfortable for being too close to reality, so I thought this would be more funny than real. Seeing people try to balance their work and their family, having to work instead of spending time with their loved ones, missing special occasions ... that hits a little too close for me and is something I would rather see in a drama than a comedy, which I watch to escape reality. The ending - that you can't have it all and have to make hard choices - is true, but it's also so serious.

That said, I did think it was a good show and I will be watching the next episode. (I usually give a new show 3 tries before I decide to cut it, but sometimes things are just so terrible that I can't make it there. This isn't one of those shows.) Sometimes pilots aren't the best representations of a show, and sometimes it just takes some time for everyone to get it right. For example, I loved Modern Family from the very first episode and still do, but that wasn't the case with Community, which is one of my favorite shows on TV right now. I liked the first episode of Community but I didn't rave about it (like I did with Modern Family). I kept watching, and each week they did enough to get me to keep watching, and at some point (don't remember which episode), it just clicked with me and I couldn't stop watching (and got A hooked on it, for which the paintball episodes probably helped). Maybe this will click with me like that in a future episode too. I just hope next week has more laughs!

Sunday, September 11, 2011

10 Years Later

If you've ever been around me when the topic of 9/11 comes up, you might know that I choose not to talk about it. I also try not to think about it because I find it too disturbing and depressing. It's hard to even write about it and I don't watch any of the movies or TV specials. The world changed forever after that day. But 10 years later, I feel obligated to talk about it. Maybe it will be therapeutic.

It was senior year of college, so I was up in southern Connecticut and not in New York. At the time, I used to set multiple alarms to wake up (just like I do now) including my radio and TV (at the highest volumes as my shared wall "neighbor" was the stairwell). I woke up exactly when it happened. I don't know if it was subconsciously hearing the news or just internally knowing something was wrong. It's one of those inexplicable things but it felt like a bad dream.

I was glued to the news coverage before class and then finally pulled myself away to go. There were plenty of people who had been out and about and hadn't heard the news along the way. I felt bad sharing the news, but also felt like people needed to know what happened (and were going to hear it at some point). This was before the age of smartphones and widespread wi-fi so things mostly spread by word of mouth or from other sources when you were back in your room.

Class was weird. No one knew what to do. People tried to act like things were normal but everyone knew they weren't. I think once everyone realized what happened, classes were cancelled for the rest of the day. I couldn't stop watching the 24 hour news channels for days, even though nothing changed and the news kept getting worse and worse. I think they told us that they wanted things to go back to normal at school but understood (since there were a lot of New Yorkers at school) if that was difficult for people.

At some point that morning (not sure if it was before or after class), I tried calling home to make sure everyone was OK. After all, it wouldn't be impossible for family to be there, even though I gave myself good reasons why everyone wouldn't be. When my mom and I used to take the bus to the city, we would always stop by the WTC area - to shop, to make a bathroom pit stop, to eat something. My dad could have had a meeting in the area. It wasn't impossible and I was worried. Luckily, everything was fine, although when I tried to call my dad, I heard he was in a tornado zone. It wasn't a tornado, but debris was spreading to other boroughs. Everything about that time period was surreal. No other word to describe living through something like that. Over the following days and weeks, there were tons of stories of people who, for one reason or another, just missed being there that tragic morning, whether they woke up late or decided to run an errand. Unfortunately, there were also stories of people we knew who didn't make it out. I grew up in a community with a lot of cops and firefighters. It was really sad. Even though their actions embodied heroism, their families would forever be without them.

The days and weeks after 9/11 were strange. People did try to go back to normal. We went to class. We even threw birthday parties. But I always noticed a seriousness and somberness in the air that wasn't there before. I went to candlelight vigils. I went to activities in the chapel and just spent quiet time there. I cried frequently. At some point, I stopped watching the news because I couldn't take it anymore.

A few weeks after 9/11, I went back home. My dad picked me up near Grand Central and drove home. I don't know how people managed to keep a normal routine in NYC. All over, there were posted stories of missing people or people who died. It was in GCT, it was by the armory, it was everywhere. Hope and loss. You could still see some smoke from the WTC site, and it was the first time I had seen the city skyline without the distinctive Twin Towers. It was so strange. (I can't even tell you how weird it was to see them back in the Fringe alternate world.) You could tell that the world was never, ever, going to be the same.

I have barely spent any time near Ground Zero in the past 10 years. A lot of people took photos of the large hole in the ground, but I never did because I thought of it as a mass grave. I didn't like looking at it, because everything reminded me of everything we lost. Now, looking at Ground Zero, it looks incredibly different. There are new buildings and memorials, after years of just being a giant crater in the ground. The city is trying to move forward, 10 years later. But, in my opinion, this is a wound from which the city will never fully heal (and can't be expected to). It's something that those of us who lived through it will never forget.

Thursday, September 1, 2011

September 1

It's September and it's the first day of the month, both things I associate with "renewal." There's just something in the air in September that makes me think of new beginnings and starting over. (I think it has to do with the beginning of the school year.) Also, I think I take any opportunity to "start over" which is why I try to reclaim control over my life on the first day of every month, thinking that maybe this month will be the month it finally all comes together.

This morning started off well, very productive. But after my late lunch, it all fell apart, between being busy, being exhausted, being too far behind on time entries and the inevitable passing out that I really can't explain. Why can't I physically make it through the day?

I was hoping my fitbit would come yesterday (as it should have on two day shipping) so that I could start my new regimen on the 1st, but it didn't arrive until today. It's all set up and ready to go, so project "reclaim life" begins in full force tomorrow morning! Let's see how the fitbit says I sleep tonight...